Tips for Newbies Escorts and Erotic Masseuses Guide

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Starting a new job is always a challenge, especially in the adult world as an erotic tantric masseuse or escort in London… No one talks openly about it and discusses their mistakes. So, I have written down a few things to remember for those new to the business.

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Six Rules for Successful Escorts and Erotic Masseuses

• Don’t do things you don’t want to do. Plenty of guys will persuade you to do whatever they fancy to be the first. Yes, they always want to be the first. Money is tempting at this point, and they will offer extra to be the chosen one, but remember you are in charge, and it’s okay to say NO. Don’t fall for the “but everyone else does it” spiel. They are most likely lying.
• Don’t see anyone under 30. They don’t appreciate you as much as elderly clients. Clients in their 20s treat you like an object, are virgins, or are awkward. They always want a discount or a cheap deal. Please don’t fall for it.
• Save money in those early days. You will probably be the busiest in the first six months. This is your prime time. You will be excited about this new job, take on a lot of bookings, and earn big. You might think this will continue, but your drive will decrease, and you will soon take fewer bookings. You are no longer fresh meat on the market and might have to lower your prices. Therefore, save in the beginning.
• Invest money. Do something with your money, especially in the first months. You might only do this briefly, so you should maximise it. Some pay off their Degree. Masters are expensive in the UK and London, especially now, but they are affordable. Or get that driver's licence you have put off for so long. It’s about time now. And £2000 is not that much anymore. Fancy a car? Get it! You deserve it.
• I recommend you save 25% of your income and spend it wisely when you need to. The rest is pocket money, which you deserve! You could also start investing your money and create your financial freedom earlier than you think.
• Finally, be careful who you make friends with. Some are sleazy and want to make the most out of you because you are new, naive and fresh meat. You are exciting to clients, and some other escorts are not anymore, so they will want to pair up with you and only give you a little contribution to your time…don’t let them fool you. You’ll be warned.

Six Essential Tips for Newbie Escorts and Erotic Masseuses

Entering the world of adult services as an escort or erotic masseuse can be daunting and exhilarating at the same time. To navigate this industry successfully, consider these essential tips:

1. Prioritise Your Safety and Comfort

Always put your safety and comfort first. Trust your instincts and never engage in activities or services that make you uncomfortable. Saying no to clients or requests that cross your boundaries is okay. You should set clear guidelines and stick to them.

2. Build a Professional Reputation

Your reputation is your most valuable asset in this industry. Provide exceptional service, maintain confidentiality, and treat clients with respect. Positive reviews and word-of-mouth recommendations can significantly boost your career.

3. Understand Legal and Regulatory Aspects

Be aware of the legal and regulatory framework surrounding adult services in the UK. Ensure you comply with local laws and regulations, including taxation and licensing requirements. Seek legal advice if needed to protect yourself and your business.

4. Invest in Your Skills and Education

Continuous learning and skill development are crucial for long-term success. Consider attending workshops, courses, or seminars on massage techniques, intimacy coaching, or business management. Enhancing your skills will set you apart from competitors and attract discerning clients.

5. Manage Your Finances Wisely

Financial planning is essential in the unpredictable world of adult services. Budget carefully, save some of your earnings for emergencies or future investments, and consider diversifying your income streams. Explore options such as retirement savings or property investments to secure your financial future.

6. Consider Starting as an Erotic Masseuse

Starting as an erotic masseuse can provide valuable experience and insights into the industry. It allows you to refine your massage techniques, build a client base, and understand client preferences before transitioning into escorting. Many professionals find this gradual progression beneficial for establishing a solid reputation and gaining confidence.

By following these tips, you can navigate the challenges of the adult services industry with confidence and professionalism. Remember to prioritise your well-being, build strong client relationships, and continuously strive for personal and professional growth.

Whether you choose to specialise in erotic massage or expand into escorting, approach your career with dedication and integrity. Embrace the opportunities for self-discovery and financial independence that this unique industry offers.

If you are providing your services in London, you should start advertising your services as an erotic masseuse and also as an escort. As a masseur, you could advertise in our Massage for Women section and on tantric massage in the London section.

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You can check out available tantric masseuses and masseurs in your city. Adult massages in the UK, England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland are provided by independent massage providers.

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Author

Julia Rossa - an author, blogger, medical journalist, and certified sex therapist. Educated at London Metropolitan University, she brings a wealth of knowledge and a unique perspective to her writing. Julia is dedicated to providing evidence-based insights on sexual health and wellness, aiming to destigmatise conversations around sex. With years of experience as a therapist, she is also a massage and fitness enthusiast. Through her engaging blog and widely-read articles, Julia empowers readers to enhance their intimate relationships and embrace their sexuality with confidence.

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